Sunday, July 27, 2008

The Ex Files...

I hung out with some friends on Thursday evening after my class and ran into Mr. Godiva. This was during our second and final spot to hang out and kick it. As soon as I walked into the door there he was at a table with another man and a woman. I am a thousand percent positive he saw me, but I kept walking as if I didn’t know him. Kudos to me for always looking decent when I am in public, lol. So I quickly informed my group of who was here in case they caught me gazing in that direction.

I was heavily in encouraged to do another walk by and even say hello. I truly didn’t see the point, which surprised me because I was tipsy enough to be bold. I did wish My Guy was with me, for childish reasons. I would love for him to see how I’ve upgraded post him. One thing he did that annoyed me was he left his party and went to the bar and started harassing some random fairly young black women. I wasn’t in the slightest bit jealous; I just knew exactly what he was doing. He was trying to perform and show me he can still pick up women. My friend pointed out a few times he would glance in our direction. I purposely faced another direction. I’d be damned if you saw me looking your wack ass show.

I understand anyone can have a few drinks and start being “social”. But the women he was talking to were mediocre and he looked desperate from his body language. Anyway, I didn’t say a word. In fact, I was conveniently on my cell phone as we walked out. Oh the joy of running into an old episode…

3 comments:

T.C. said...

well alright now...get it!!! you kept it classy and tasteful...rock on sis!

YoungBlackBeauty said...

Well go you. Running into ex's can sometimes end up ugly. I commend you for taking that I-dont-see-your-sorry azz route. That as a hard route to take without much effort( depending on the relationship.)

It would have been even better if you had on a Freakum Dress and and a few boy toys hanging around her table. Oh the joy of making the ex jealous. hehe.

Eb the Celeb said...

If he went that extra mile... that means he still cares... a dude that had no apprehensions about the situation would have come over and spoke... he obviously still digs you so take that as you being the one who won... also you facing a different direction probably hurt his ego...
but what woul dhave hurt his ego even more is if you went over and spoke when he was macking... said a nice hello... I thought that was you... well i'll leave you too alone... good to see you, and walked away and not payed him anymore attention the rest of the night... even introducing yourself to the girl would have had him baffled...

lol... (sigh) the games we play...lol

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