Freak: a person who has withdrawn from normal, rational behavior and activities to pursue one interest or obsession.
Freak like many terms to me is totally subjective. But it’s through my current dealings Mr. Godiva I’ve learned that freak isn’t only in the eye of the beholder but there are also cultural differences that influence the depths of being a freak.
To me being a freak is more of an attitude or a state of mind. It’s the feeling of no sexual inhibitions, and the willingness to go beyond usual boundaries to satisfy your worthy mate. To me it’s not so much about the actual activities performed but the intent behind them.
So in my experience/culture you were considered a freak if you:
Openingly enjoyed fucking
Participated in threesomes & swinger parties
Profession: porn star or stripper
What I’ve discovered is when asked by Mr. Godiva what’s the freakiest thing I’ve done. It turned out that I wasn’t what he would consider to be a freak. A freak in his opinion has done the following: Golden Showers, bondage (talking dog collars and all), anal sex both ways (me & him), derogatory names while fucking (whore, bitch), and of course drinking urine. I am passing NO judgment on the things I’ve just mentioned. I love the fact that Mr. Godiva and I are at place where we can openingly discuss our fetishes.
I started this topic by mentioning my obsveration of the cultural differences of what makes a person a freak. While I would consider myself a freak because I do enjoy sex and I am very comfortable with my sexuality. I don’t see myself doing a lot of things mentioned in my previous paragraph (at least not until I am married). But I find it interesting that a few of those items are just unspoken rules to NEVER ask a black person (LOL)