Saturday, April 28, 2007

When You Don't Trust Your Man...



I wasn’t going to talk about the following due to the fact that I didn’t want to give this woman any of my time nor energy. But since you still live your life in the world of redundancy and immaturity- I’ll put you on blast at your favorite past time-my blog.

A few days ago I was talking to my assistant ending another hard and productive day when I get a phone call on my cell. I noticed the caller id read “restricted”, I only get two calls from restricted numbers: my parent’s house and my homeboy.

So I answer the phone “This is Ms. Confessions…” and I hear a loud click. Instantly I knew someone was playing games. It was rather funny at first because its been awhile since I’ve gotten hung up on while receiving a call. For some strange reason I knew it was my homeboy’s girlfriend calling. Not even sure how I knew that. But he did call and confirmed that my assumption was indeed correct.

I am assuming she gave into her curiosity and wanted to partake yet again in her quest to find some dirt on her man by researching their phone bill. I assume she found my number a few times and for maybe 30 to 40 minutes at a time. Yes, I am talking to your man; but no I am not fucking your man. And no I don’t want your man.

Here we are again in 2007 with you and your wack ass detective work. Now based off history their scenario goes like this:

Girl finds out man is cheating, girl gets mad and wants to fight other girl and cuss out her man. Her man calms her down, tells her the right things, and attempts to be on his best behavior. Girl finds out he’s been creeping yet again… and on and on blah blah…

My advice to you:
Understand and accept your man likes variety (Not meaning with me but in general). He’s been very consistent with this behavior, so why get all stressed out and in a ghetto rage? Especially when we know once everything is all said and done you’ll continue to stay in the relationship…

DON’T BE MAD AT THE PLAYA, BE MAD AT YOUR INABILITY TO PLAY THE GAME!!!

8 comments:

Blu Jewel said...

popped your comment cherry! lol!

that's some real talk right there. she might wanna check herself and her inability to have some ambition and self esteem. if you know the man is a creeper, then leave him and move on instead of playing herself out by making calls. she better check herself and recognize though cause she might call the wrong one one of these days!

A woman on the move said...

Blue-

Yes, she's a trip! The funny thing is, I'm the last person she needs to be worrying about.

Again, I'm sorry you dont trust your man. And I'm sorry you have to live your life checking up on your man.

Perhaps, now's a good time to take some courses or work on you. I'm sure you have some other hobbies or interests besides playing dectective...

T.C. said...

ok...*taking a moment to think about this dumb shyt* ok yea i can't make sense of this...

when my ex's old girl called my phone i very nicely let her know that whatever problems they have have NOTHING to do with me...check your man...

rediculous....*shaking my head*

The Mistress said...

I couldn't agree with you more. I can't imagine myself being in that position and having the nerve to blame someone other than my man. That is for CHICKENHEADS. People need to realize the only person who owes you ANYTHING is your partner. Not the person they're cheating with.

beautyinbaltimore said...

Now that what pisses me off, how you gonna act a fool and still stay with the dude. It makes no sense to me.

simply STAR said...

Eliminate the drama...get rid of his ass too. And since she is probably reading this....get a life girl...accept that your man is going to fuck others and get over it. stop calling the same woman asking the same question. She is being nice to u. I would have hurt your feelings. Stop jocking my homegirl...stop asking if she is with your man because the truth won't matter....and stop checking his shit and trying to play private eye...Even if they are fucking...you ain't gone do shiit about it.

A woman on the move said...

What more can a girl say about this bullshit?

LMAO!

Sucks to be YOU!!!!

Goliano said...

I feel your advice and that of all who've commented. (You women must be here from another planet, cuz I haven't run across any like you... or at least any who will admit it.) LOL

Anyway, let me run this by y'all:
With all else in your post being the same, what would your advice have been for your homeboy's girlfriend had she only suspected dude was cheating and had no proof he was or ever had?

This is real talk and I'll go into detail, if necessary, but, right now, I wanna hear what y'all have to say with just that.

Peace!

P.S. I left a comment on your 'Joy of giving head' post. I'm interested in hearing what y'all have to say about that, too.

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