Friday, June 23, 2006

I Like Porn...


So as a little girl growing up we were taught to play house, play with baby dolls, and stay nice and clean. During the teenage years you were; the cheerleader, class president, slightly rebellious, prom queen, model/actor (especially if you grew up in L.A.), college bound, career focused, family planning, or boy crazy. As you become an adult, society says a woman can be independent in every aspect of her life except her sexuality. If you are a woman who is comfortable with her feminity and enjoys having sex, you are labeled a whore.

I don't mean the woman who's literally selling herself for whatever, or even the woman who let's everyone in the neighborhood have a taste. I am talking about that woman who is; your boss (she handles her business professionally), your classmate (college), or just a complete lady on the outer exterior. Is she a whore, because she enjoys having sex or watching porn? I will admit I watch porn and I am not a stranger of self satisfying my own needs. What I have a problem with is the type of porn that is currently out on the market. I understand the porn industry is a male dominated market, but there are straight women who enjoy watching porn that isn't shot solely from a male's perspective.

If it's not some weird fetishes, bi sexual, animal sexing, semen sucking women, or big booty this; what else is a straight laced woman suppose to enjoy? I suppose there isn't a real platform for me to express my opinions about the current porn options, when I shouldn't even admit I watch it or enjoy sex in the first place. Again it's not about sleeping with any and every penis that comes within 20 feet. But I do enjoy the company of a man I know and who knows me.

Lately, since I don't have a steady man in my life I've been doing some reading and watching a few flicks. My current author of choice for the erotic crowd would have to be Zane. Her books are unbelievably good and I would highly recommend her to any woman who enjoys sex and celebrates her sexual liberation. As a woman you should not feel bad because you are a sexual person, again as long as the world doesn't know you're a freak-who cares? I feel this is especially true if you are married or in a committed relationship. What else is the point in being exclusive? I see nothing wrong with popping in a few DVDs, calling your boo, and bustin' one...

4 comments:

Voyageuse... said...

Pas mal, pas mal...

Vous êtes une personne fréquentable.

sango.

The Mistress said...

I like porn too and I LOVE ZANE! Have you read Chocolate Flava? It's awesome!

I kinda agree about the status of porn though. Some of it is very masochistic and gross. Maybe you and I should go into business and form an adult film company. We can hire some actors and make the kind of porn WE want to see.

LMAO!!! :-)

A woman on the move said...

@ The Mistress- Girl I swear you and I are one of a kind! As far as the business, you ain’t saying anything but a word, LOL. I’m always down when it comes to my business…Holla at me!!

DivineLavender said...

See I love good porn. I should be a porn critic or porn productor. We need some new male porn stars...tired of seeing the same ole' lame "sticks". Can I be a partner with you and Mistress?

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