Saturday, July 19, 2008

Something New...

Thinking of the movie for this post. So as you know Mr. Guy is white (no big deal). I’ve actively dated other ethnic groups for the past 2 years. However, the ideal person of another race would be one who is already familiar with the black culture. Don’t date me and expect me to be your almanac for the African American community. I don’t represent EVERY black person. Moving on, so there were a few scenes in that movie I could totally relate to.

The Hair:

I’ve been rocking a weave since March of 07. I had to fire my last hairdresser and a friend of mine was client of a stylist who specializes solely in weaves. So a star was born, no damage to my hair. At that time I was dating Mr. Godiva (white man), so he saw my hair pre weave and after. He didn’t care one way or the other. But let’s fast-forward to My Guy. Let me first say My Guy is very affluent with the black culture while maintaining his Irish roots (something I love about him). I don't want a “whigger”

My Guy asked me about my hair and if I wear my hair naturally. I told him yes (lol) and showed him plenty of pictures. He wasn’t being mean about it, but that night I couldn’t sleep. I wanted to rip the weave out that night. I just had this overwhelming need to let her go and rock my hair. I cant front I want him to run his fingers through my hair and rub my scalp. It’s a silly thing, but its funny how a man can indirectly influence you to make some minor changes about yourself. And this works both ways. The funny thing is I have hair, way too much. My shit is super thick and I don’t know how to comb it (may be I should say I don’t know how to manage it). Not to mention weaves are addictive, I truly could just keep going and My weave isn’t obnoxious; in fact most people don’t know it’s a weave. But anyway she’s coming out in a week.

The Penis:

Cock vs. Dick. I think cock is freaking hilarious and I can’t bring myself to say the word and keep a straight face. It is so a white thing, my experience has proven that. My white men have both used the word frequently. But am I the only one? I would rather my guy say dick. Cock is just a funny word to me. Suck my cock, haha.


Eb the Celeb said...

I like dick too... its just so masculine and reminds me of getting the bizness... cock sounds like something that was a waste of time

The Love Collective said...

Girl, weave or no weave, just put it on him!

PreciousGem-Refinement in Progress said...

You are so funny! I love that Mr. Guy is giving you so much blog content because I really enjoy reading it. Weave or natural, do you, and continue having fun!!

YoungBlackBeauty said...

Cock does sound funny. It reminds me of some random white guy in a porno. HaHa.

BTW I'm so happy for you and Mr. Guy! I get excited reading your posts. Good luck to both of you.

Blu Jewel said...

I've dated white and they've accepted me with or without tracks/weave. I love to have my hair played in and scalp rubbed, so I'd be ripping my weave out if I had one in, so dude could let his fingers do some walking.

I don't like cock either. Agrees wtih Eb's comment.

You sound so happy girl, and I'm happy for you.


T.C. said...

you truly are keeping a smile on my face...i can understand about not being able to manage the hair, been there myself...but i can also totally dig wanting a dude to run his fingers through your hair...that's the best!

ummmmmmmmmmmmmm....yea the d word is way better...LOL

hawa said...

I had to laugh.. "Cock" does sound like some random [white] guy in a porno!

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