Saturday, January 05, 2008

He & I...

So much to talk about and not enough patience and time to blog about it. I am completely smitten with Mr. NY and I’m not sure how to go about things between us. I spent 75% of my trip with this man He spent News Years Eve with my mother and I. I baked brownies for us to enjoy and toasted the New Year with the three of us.

I did sex him a few times, and my God the sex was good. This man is incredibly hung (more than I recall) and his strokes are magnificent. It’s been a while since I’ve had a man so good in bed. I love his confidence, the way he pleases me, and how sexy he makes me feel. I loved spending time at his place and in his bed. I honestly can’t believe how wide open I am when I reminisce about the times we shared. We talk everyday so far.

Howevere, there’s always a flaw to everything and perhaps I may be making a mountain out of a molehill. But he’s shorter than me, at least 3 inches in flats (I don’t even want to mention the difference when I wear my stilettos). For now I am rolling with the punches and since he’s way in L.A., I don’t have the constant physical reminder of our height difference.

But is this enough reason to NOT allow myself to fall for a guy? I understand nothing in life is ever perfect, but is height a deal breaker?

7 comments:

decembersnow263 said...

no! no, no, no. DO NOT let height be the deal breaker. You could miss out on a great relationship, or at least a good lesson to look back on....

The Mistress said...

Wow I have a LOT of catching up to do!

Oh and I like the new look!

I'm off the read the archives for-fucking-ever til I figure out what's going on!

T.C. said...

his smaller package (height) is NOT The one that counts in the LONG run of things...HELLO!

i say go for it, if he is confident he won't care that you have on heels or not..look at Kimora and Russell he could have cared less...and they still looked good together because they were both confident...i say go for it!

Blu Jewel said...

I prefer tall men, but if he's giving the extra inches elsewhere, then girl don't sweat it. I know I sound a little petty, but why give up a good thing cause he has a height deficit? A good and decent man is what you want and it sounds like he could be it.

TwentyTwo said...

Relationships end for all kinds of reason, so why muck it up over height? Enjoy it and see what happens.

Liryc said...

You cannot, I repeat CANNOT let this be the reason. Height isn't that important... if he knows how to treat you right, you can throw that height requirement bullcrap out the window.. enjoy your man honey. There aren't that many around to choose from. TRUST ME! Especially not in NY.

Eb the Celeb said...

Whew... you are a good one... my height complex is so bad that he wouldnt have had the chance to get in bed with me... but have fun with it girl... you obviously are enjoying each others company... dont let that 1 thing steer you away from what you potentially be your dream guy

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