Wednesday, September 06, 2006

What Hurts More?

Getting a tattoo?

Getting bit by an animal?

Not having a family?

Having sex for the first time?

Being evicted from your home?

Loosing a pet?

People making fun of you right in your face?

Getting a weird body piercing?

Loving someone more than they love you?

Realizing underneath the confident exterior you’re still subject to rejection?

Not being able to provide for your children?

Loosing all of your money due to gambling?

Getting shot?

Finding out your mate was cheating on you?

Living life as if you’ve lost the race?

Being raped?

Loosing a loved one?

Being dumped by your significant other?

Loosing a job you loved?

Admitting to yourself you deserve better than what you’re receiving from people close to you?

10 comments:

Single Ma said...
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Single Ma said...

It's hard to say what hurts MORE. I think they ALL hurt, probably in various ways depending on the person's tolerance. However, I also believe emotional pain has a greater effect than physical pain. The saying "time heals all wounds" doesn't always apply to emotional trauma -- sometimes it lasts a lifetime.

T.C. said...

Admitting to yourself you deserve better than what you’re receiving from people close to you?

shereejoi said...

I agree with Single ma.

The Pussy Cat Bitch said...

What hurts more? Not shaving for a month (for obvious reasons) and consequently getting pubic hairs caught in your zipper. Didn’t happen to me personally, but it did happen to a dear friend of mine. After that excruciating experience, she’s made it her business to keep her ‘temple’ trimmed. Now that’s painful.

DivineLavender said...

I think getting raped hurt worst because of the physical and mental wounds that stay with you.

G. Mo said...

Loving someone more than they love you and then finding out that they cheated on you... that's some pain right there!!!!

A woman on the move said...

Good points from everyone!!

@Pussy, can't say I know anyone who's had that experience..LOL

Lex said...

I think they are all painful, but this one is a special kind of pain:

Admitting to yourself you deserve better than what you’re receiving from people close to you.

It requires you to evaluate your closest relationships and grieve what's not there or what's been lost. It requires you to feel things you've tried to ignore, sometimes for a life time.

Unfortunatley I've experienced far too many of these on your list, but you can recover from them all. Even the one I think hurts the most.

Great post.

js said...

hehe
I followed from another blog
what hurts most
the very most
uis zipping your ding-a-ling or your "boys" up in your zipper!!!!!!!!!
and the bitch of it is you have to unzip to get relief!!!
jsull28fl@yaho

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