Lately I find myself becoming annoyed easily in his presence. It’s the little things he says and does that bug the hell out of me. I have never once taken advantage of his feeling towards me. In fact, every time he says I Love You (yes, he’s already saying this) I never respond. He even made a comment about understanding I don’t love him. So why would you continue to say those words when you’ve never once heard me respond to you or I tell you I don’t love you?
He’s starting to get a little comfortable in my home. This is why I make it a point to not invite men over too soon. One morning he came to my house at 6:15 am. He rung my cell off the hook, and then I heard a knock on my bedroom window and main door. Mind you this was a weekday and I normally get out of the bed around 6:40 and this fool was at my door step at 6:15 am. The previous day was a pretty bad day at work. That evening he was the last person I called right before I went to bed that night, and my exact words to him were “I was just calling to say hello. I had a bad day at work, so I am now ready to end the night and start over. Goodnight!”
This guy came to my house the next morning at that God awful hour because he thought I was going to kill myself. Evidently a lot of the women he’s dealt with had some suicidal tendencies. At the time I was so pissed, I understand you were being concerned about my well being. But obviously you don’t know me very well otherwise you would know I would never intentionally harm myself.
He came by my house last Friday evening. The plan was to rent some movies and just chill. Well I started watching the Entourage marathon when he finally came through (which is also his favorite show). Well he started to annoy me by singing the theme song everytime it came on, it was like watching a child’s favorite show with that animated child. Then he proceeded to recite lines from damn near every episode. I asked him to stop, especially since he didn’t even know the words. You know how people come in at the end of the words of phrases. The next annoying thing was he would go to my refrigerator like he stocked it himself. For one, he’s mention he would like for me to cook for him. But since I don’t cook nor do I feel obligated to feed you, you need not stop by hungry. So instead of food he attacks my Coronas. Mind you, I don’t drink Coronas. I had a little gathering a few weeks ago and someone bought 2 cases of the beer not knowing it isn’t my favorite thing to drink. So the Coronas have been chilling in the fridge for a minute. That is until Mr. Thirsty ransacked my stuff.
While I may not enjoy Coronas don’t assume you are welcome to my stuff whenever you feel without asking. That’s when you know someone is starting to feel comfortable in your space. He then wanted to go out, but I had already had enough of this guy for one evening. So I politely declined. He then told me he would go out and come back around 1:00 am. I said NO; once you leave you’re gone. My door isn’t open to you 24 hours. I got a phone call around 4:30 am from a number I didn’t know, but I know it was him. No one else with any good sense would call me at that hour. I’m sure it was drunk dialing. At any rate the thrill is gone
9 comments:
Damn,
That is some hilarious comedy! Wowwww he did not! I feel you on not feeling guys. These days I'm running through men as often as I change draws and considering that I change them daily...that's sad that men compare on that level. I see why most women are on the strickly kick it level with no strings attached because we run into men such as that.
WOWW...I must say again. Popping up at the crib is a no no, helping yourself to my fridge without a confirmation is a no no, being a bug-a-boo and blowing up my phone is a definate no no and that most definately is three strikes-to my understanding of the game...three strikes and your done buddy.
Then calling at 4 in the a.m. with no specific plans on previous conversation in earlier hours and singing the these song everytime...no no no...I can understand once and maybe twice, but not every time.
I was just thinking about men today and trying to figure out where I could hang out differently to just experience another scene for a change. I really don't hang out now, but it just crossed my mind and then I thought about it and came to the conclusion that I have met guys in all diff places from the club, to bookstores, coffee shops, the grocery store, places like target, during my lunch hour, at the job, at church, etc. and realized...the place does not make the diff its the people that approach you that make it. So I plan to keep doing the same exact thing. Just Chill and continue to be picky in my choice of men I choose to date, be with, have in my life, etc.
@Diversified Mind- I’ll admit I haven’t been out lately. I’m not that motivated. Truly what are my options if I want to meet new people? Go to the club/bar/lounge? I feel those places are truly a waste of my time. It’s the officially meat market in the dark.
You’re forced to commingle with a bunch of people trying too hard. Which is why I must go out high as a kite in order to personally have a good time. You have a room full of females standing up against the wall casting judgment on every person that walks by. You may have three to five guys tops in the entire place that look decent, but every female is on the chase.
I have a few questions I like to ask any new guy who tries to approach me and in that environment with the loud music, it's hard to have any conversation of substance. So here we are again another great outfit wasted. I leave the place smelling like cigarettes and black n milds. I’d rather chill at home. Perhaps it’s truly one of those fate things. I’ll meet him when I am pumping gas or grocery shopping, LOL. A girl can always dream.
Oh wow...you are moving into stalker territory with this one! RUN! What a comedy of errors this man is engaging in!
We've all been here girl, break it off now and cross your fingers and hope for the best. The best being: HE GOES AWAY FOREVER! AWAY!!!!
@ Mistress- My fingers are crossed. I haven't spoken to him since that night. And today is Wednesday (which is a while for him). Perhaps my behavior that night influenced him to not want to call me any more.
Back down gracefully is my motto…
My friend and I once devised and ingenious way to get out of saying "I love you".
Switch the word 'love' to 'glove'.
And if you ever get caught, tell him I said that glove means: 'I respect you as a person but could never, ever love you'
@Jezabel- That's a new one for me!
I simply "glove" that girl!!!
LOL
I SO went through something like this a while ago...BUT he is STILL lingering...even sending me a text picture of a "box" (mind you it looks like a ring box) to say that was my birthday gift...
Men can be OFF seriously...Just keep handling yourself as you are, keeping it VERY clear that you do NOT love him, and at this point want NOTHING from him...it might even end with there being NO relationship at all including a friendship...but that may be for the best...
YES he is cripping into "hey I see you mood" seriously...
@T.C. - See that’s why I want to be very tactful while handling this guy. I don’t need him showing up at my spot unannounced again. He did call me yesterday (mind you I haven’t called nor spoke to him since last Friday) asking if I wanted to go to the movies. I politely declined.
Then he asked if I wanted to attend this “business meeting” at 7:00pm that evening. Long story short he tried to get me to go to one of those pyramid scheme meetings. I told him no thank you again. I have a blog topic on pyramids on the horizon…
Already Sum??? This is too funny!
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