Wednesday, July 19, 2006

You've Got Mail...


So I had a few conversations with some of my male friends to get their opinions of my whole companionship vs. boyfriend/girlfriend thing. While at work a friend and I had a virtual conversation about my new hot topic…



Me: I have a question to ask you….

Friend: ok

Me: Is it strange for a woman to say she’s only looking for a companion (Not a man.What would you think about her…?

Friend:
friendship or sex (to me)

Me: Well, that’s what I want from a man. (Just figured it out)
I am looking for a companionship with a guy. No titles, stress, or drama

Friend: You want some good d*ck?

Me: I want a good companion and yes the other thing too… LOL
Not a f*** buddy, but a real good friend w/ the only commitment between us is our psychical relationship.

Friend: so you’re callin the shots????


Me: Not calling the shots, just clarifying what it is I want from a guy. At this point or phase of my life, I don’t feel a need to rush into a serious relationship with a man. I believe I can have a good and sound relationship w/ a man not having to call him”my man”…

Friend: ok.....
but what if he doesn't want a relationship.... wants sex and friendship... but will see other people


Me: See I use the term relationship a lot of ways. Any friendship is a form of a relationship. You can see who you want just as long as you can be there for me when I need you to be...

Friend: I like that....

3 comments:

Malinda said...

That makes you a whore!

Anonymous said...

Actually.. I think it's healthier to have a fuck buddy on the side. That way you dont have to jump from partner to partner to meet your sexual urges. I say, feel funky and feel free, just dont spread that funk on me.

A woman on the move said...

@ Malinda: Glad you saw the point in what I had to say. I wonder if you'll be sleeping alone tonight in your bed...like so many nights.


@ Anonoymous: I am not suggesting any particular way of dating/fucking. But I feel what you have to say. Do your thing!

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