Sunday, June 21, 2009

Weekend Loving...

Just ending another great weekend. My Guy and I got a hotel room for the weekend (just downtown Dallas). It’s funny I’ve lived here for almost five years and there’s so much to Dallas I still don’t know, including downtown. We checked in on Friday evening and stayed until Sunday. The overall point was to not only get away while being in town, but to also get to know each other. It may sound strange since its been almost a year since we’ve started dating, but there’s still so much we’ve got to learn about one another. In fact, it will take a lifetime for us to complete that mission and its something we’re committed to accomplishing together.

It’s been a year (wow what a year). During this trip I learned that I love this man more than I could imagine loving someone and I am amazed at the level of love I feel from him. It’s as if things between us are too perfect. There’s no drama (we’ve hit a few speed bumps but nothing serious) and you wonder is love suppose to be this simple? It’s easy to love him. It hurts when I’m away. Even while typing this post, I am a little sad. I hate saying good-bye to him. We talked about moving in together, but it won’t be until next year. It’s strange I have conflicting thoughts about us shacking up. One part of me wants to live together to minimize the surprises. The other part of me wants to do thing “right” and wait until we’re married. Yet the ironic part is we’re guilty of fornication.

At any rate there’s no rush on either of our parts. We’re just expressing our plans for one another. Again, I feel so grateful to have this guy in my life. There are a few things in my life I could do without, but he makes life so much better and I’ve never known a love like this…

3 comments:

T.C. said...

i definitely think its cool that its so easy! I honestly believe that LOVE isn't that hard people make it hard! We get in our own way! that's the issue and the problem right there...so keep having that wonderfully peaceful love!!!!

Thoughts of a Southern gal said...

Someone once told me "love is easy". Sounds like you are on the right track!

peace2332000 said...

As far as moving in/waiting until marriage, the two of you just have to do what is best for the two of you. Don't worry about what is "politically correct". Just make sure that the two of you are joyous and confident in your decisions. Your judgement has gotten you this far, so let it carry you though.

And yes, love is easy. When it is pure and true.

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