Sunday, February 17, 2008

Guilty of Sexual Harassment So I Had A Slumber Party

This pass week I experienced my usual monthly sexual peek and reacted in an unusual manner. Every month I go through a period of being extremely horny (nothing out of the ordinary) right before my menstrual cycle. Usually I suppress this feeling or I give in to self-gratification to get the job done. This past week I was on campus a little more than normal, which means I am constantly in the presence of intelligent and attractive men. Its like Baskin Robins, there’s literally 31 flavors of eye candy.

I arranged a few study sessions with some members of my study group. On Tuesday late afternoon my study partner and I met up before our class review session to get in some extra help with an upcoming exam. Once we were done and heading to the big session we waited patiently in our building’s main lobby until an existing class got out of our room. Once we were about to enter the class I subconsciously smacked my classmate on the ass with the school’s newspaper (lol). The bad part is I truly wasn’t aware or even paid attention to what I’d just done.

So Wednesday night after our class we decide to have another study session. This is with the same guy (Mr. MBA Kappa) and another guy who decided to join our session. We had to wait on an available study room and it was during this time I made a comment about “let’s go to your house”. I didn’t really mean it (I was just talking out of my ass).

Finally we get a room. While Mr. MBA Kappa was writing on the dry erase board I got up to throw my gum into the trash and smacked him on his ass yet again. Except this time I did it in front the other guy. Again, I didn’t get up with the premeditated thought of smacking him on his ass, it just happened. So we leave study group and head to our cars. Mr. MBA Kappa makes the comment “ I thought you were going to my house”. At the time I didn’t know what he was talking about, so I continued to get in my car.

I get home and ready for bed when he texted me “ you’re all talk”. I was lost again, so I called him up. It was during this conversation when he recapped all of my sexual innuendos. I was so embarrassed; I truly was unaware of my rude behavior. I know for a fact had a man did any of the abovementioned things to me; I would be pissed.

After the conversation I felt guilty. I felt obligated to at least finish what I started (lol). So last night I kicked it with him at his place and we had sex. Overall it was pretty good. But the point of this post is to remind myself that women can come off too sexually aggressive just like men. I totally made this guy feel like my little play object and wasn’t even aware. This girl is going to have throw some cold water on her face. It going to be a long 13 months (lol)…


The Love Collective said...

13 months? Umm, so, he's not getting any more? Lol.

Ms. Confessions said...

Love Collective- LOL, I'm not saying it wont happened again as far as the sex. But I am done slapping men on their ass, without prior permission. :)

Nic said...

"I felt obligated to at least finish what I started" Dang I don't know how to feel about that. As long as you're cool with the meeting. I really hope there wasn't any real pressure on you. Dude seemed cool about it though.

Blu Jewel said...

Read my current post! *lol*

That aside, yes, we as women do sometimes come off a little too flirtatious or sexually aggressive which leads to mixed signals, or in your instance, "felt obligated".

It's good to know that you both were okay with what happened, but be careful.

Ms. Confessions said...

NIc- Everything turned out okay.

When I made that statement of feeling obligated, it was totally an inner conflict. He by no means made me feel that way. It was all in my head.

I guess I was so shocked by my behavior, I felt it was the least I could do...LOL

Blu-On my way to you spot now :)
I will watch out on that in future.

Eb the Celeb said...

Do it girl... get yours... these mofo's been getting there's for years... Dont feel bad about it at all!

BeautyinBaltimore said...

I think most women have that week of horness(sp), I know I do, birth control and all. I hope that dude won't tell your other classmates what went down.

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