Thursday, September 06, 2007

Pussy Pass: And So He Says…

So last night while Mr. Man was over I couldn’t help but bring the subject back up. It has been on my mind since we talked (I mean I even had to blog about it). So I told him I’ve given the arrangement some thoughts, yet I still had some questions/concerns. As I was continuing on with my rambling, he interrupted me to say he never really had intensions of dipping out on me (like whoa).

In fact, he said its something he actually never really planned on doing (at least not any time soon). The point he was trying to convey to me is; He trusts me enough to be honest even about his “dirty” little fantasies or desires and not be judged or rejected off top. (I am an awesome woman like that).

Man, did I just learn something here. We say we want an open and honest relationship, but can we really handle the truth? Even in this scenario it all boils down to if he’s happy with me, then there’s no reason to dip. While the tendency to cheat is very real and natural, you should be able to have the discussion with your mate. Perhaps, the need for variety can be avoided if you tell me what you need…

7 comments:

Black Mamba said...

Sounds like it was a test.

Are you relieved or would you have minded having an "open" relationship?

BeautyinBaltimore said...

I've been away to long, I must read the archives to find out about the new man.

Blu Jewel said...

i think the fact that he posed the scenario to you was indicative of his honesty and openess. it's rare these days that people discuss their sex lives/sexuality as openly as you both have. as you know and I've already said, i applaud you both for that.

you both are in a great state emotionally and sexually because you both have what many relationships lack; open and honest communication. kudos for that!

whether he dips or not; whether you have an open relationship or not is up to you both, but again i say, you both already have a great relationship and i doubt there's much that can ruin it unless you simply chose to end it.

i'm rather selfish so i know i doubt i'd be game for an open relationship or dippin out (previously stated), but i would, more than anything else, love to have the communication level that you both have. you've given me something to strive for whenever my next relationship happens.

Love!

Ms. Confessions said...

Black- I guess I am a little relieved, LOL. When it’s all said and done I would always prefer the “exclusive” rights.

Beauty- Welcome Back! Yes, you’ll have to check out the Mr. Godiva Chronicles.

Blu- You gotta love having an honest and open line of communication. Like you said, its very hard to come by. You’re always giving me something to think about. ☺

The Mistress said...

Is it me or is he playing a few head games....?

Anonymous said...

Silly rabbit, tricks are for kids...man needs to grow up.

j.a.c. said...

again, i'm with mistress. i understand the open and honest part but.. umm.. why are you playin like that? don't test me.

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